tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3222775898285290562024-02-07T09:48:58.319-05:00Revert MuslimahJamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.comBlogger132125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-10967686972075229872016-10-11T20:20:00.001-04:002016-10-11T20:20:23.217-04:00What Do You Say?Asalamu Alaikum!<br />
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It has been so long since I wrote anything here. A comment made on one of my posts brought me back to look at what I'd written and I thought I'd try to get back into posting regularly. <br />
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The purpose of this blog was for me to share my thoughts and feelings as a revert Muslimah. At first it was as much about me learning as me sharing. It has been 10 years now since I took shahada, and I still have a lot to learn. I need to review things I've lost and start to make a commitment to learning new things as well. <br />
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The title of this post is 'What do you say?". This question has been popping up in my mind over the last few months because I've seen a lot of sisters stop wearing hijab. Mostly this is through social media, so I don't really KNOW them, but I have followed their lives through their posts and photos. So my question is... What DO you say? Do you say nothing? Do you ask why? Is it our place to ask? I would never want to shame anyone or embarrass them, but at the same time, I want what is best for them, even if we are not truly close. <br />
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Also, what do you say when you see a sister who is not quite wearing hijab correctly? I'm not talking about a new revert, I'm talking about someone who has been Muslim for years. I don't want to come off sounding like a know it all, but I also wonder if they really just don't know? <br />
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Anyway, this was short and sweet. Please feel free to comment with your ideas and suggestions about this sensitive question! <br />
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JJamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-36549398872687557302014-11-13T22:27:00.001-05:002014-11-13T22:27:26.776-05:00AdviceAsalamu Alaikum<br />
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It has been a very long time since I wrote on this blog. There are many reason, and there are few reasons why I have not written, but I thought I would come back now and try again. <br />
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This quote showed up on my facebook feed a few days ago. I liked it because it pertains to a lot of things happening around me lately. Giving nasheeha has always been a touchy subject.<br />
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When I shared this image on my own facebook page one of the first comments is that advice needs to be given in the right way. This to me seems defensive... like a diversion from the point being made. No one like being told they are doing something wrong, so regardless if the advice is given softly or harshly makes little difference. In fact, I imagine that most people perceive even the most gently given advice to be harsh because they don't want to be reminded what they are doing wrong. <br />
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As things seem to get worse and worse in the Muslim world, perhaps if we actually followed this quote, we would be doing better.Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-25322372429683817382011-08-23T10:52:00.003-04:002011-08-23T10:58:19.105-04:00"EVERY BID'AH LEADS ASTRAY"<span class="Apple-style-span" >The following article was shared with me, and I found it to be very beneficial. InshAllah it helps you as well.
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<br /><span class="Apple-style-span" ><blockquote>THE SAYING OF ALLAAH'S MESSENGER sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, "EVERY BID'AH LEADS ASTRAY"
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<br />And you should be amazed at a people who recognise the words of Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, "Beware of the newly-invented matters, for every such matter is a bid'ah and every bid'ah leads astray, and everything that leads astray is in the Fire," [Reported by Aboo Daawood, Tirmidhee and others, no. 2549 in Saheehul-Jaami' without, "... every thing that leads astray is in the Fire ...", and hadith no.28 in an-Nawawees Forty Hadith] and they know that his words, "...every bid'ah..." are complete, comprehensive and universal, being encompassed by the strongest grammatical particle used to make a noun universal and all-encompassing, i.e., kullu (which means everything), and (they know that) the one who used this word, may Allaah's salawaat and salaam be upon him, knew what this word indicated and he was the most eloquent of all (in the Arabic language) and he was the sincerest of the creation towards the creation. Hence he would not use a word unless its meaning was that which he intended. Hence (they know that) when the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said, "... every Bid'ah leads astray ..." he knew what he was saying and he knew its meaning and this saying of his eminated as a result of complete sincerity and concern for the Ummah.
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<br />(They know that) when these three characteristics were all present in his words, i.e., complete sincerity and good wishes, complete clarity and eloquence and complete knowledge and understanding -then it is clear that what he said was what he wanted to say in order to convey his desired meaning. So (you should be amazed, that such a people, after recognising all this) think that bid'ah can be of three or five categories? Can this be correct? Never! And what some scholars do claim is that there exists the good innovation. But if this is so, then they can only be referring to two cases:
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<br />(i) that it is not an innovation but they do consider it to be one, or
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<br />(ii) it is an innovation, and hence it is something evil, but they do not know of its evil.
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<br />(And these are the only two possibilities, bearing in mind that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said, "... every bid'ah leads astray ...")
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<br />THE SHARP SWORD AGAINST THE PEOPLE OF INNOVATION
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<br />So for everything that is used to claim that there exists a good bid'ah, then the answer for it is all the above. Thus there can be no room for the People of Innovation to claim that their innovations are good while we have in our hand the sharp sword that Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam gave us - i.e., his saying that "... every innovation leads astray." Indeed, this sharp sword was forged in the steel-works of Prophethood and Messengership. It was not forged in some second rate iron-mill, rather in the steelworks of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam and he sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam forged it so eloquently, that anyone who has the likes of this sharp sword in his hand would never be dumb-founded by someone claiming that bid'ah is good, for the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said that, "...every bid'ah leads astray."
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<br />WHAT ABOUT THE SAYING OF 'UMAR radiallaahu 'anhu I AM PLEASED WITH THAT BID'AH?
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<br />Now I can sense that there is in your hearts a creeping doubt saying, 'But what about the words of the Chief of the Believers 'Umar bin al-Khattab radiallaahu 'anhu who succeeded in achieving something good when he ordered Ubayy ibn Ka'b and Tameem ad-Daaree to lead the people in prayer during Ramadaan. Hence he left having united the people behind a (single) Imaam, and so said, "I am happy with this innovation, but the part of the night they used to sleep through is better than the part they use to pray in." [Reported by al-Bukhaaree, (Eng. trans. vol. 3, p. 126, no.227).]
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<br />The reply to this is from two angles. Firstly, it is not permitted for anyone to oppose the saying of the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam by preferring the opinion of any other -be it the opinion of Abu Bakr who is better than anyone else in this ummah after its Prophet, or that of 'Umar who is the second best after its Prophet, or 'Uthmaan who is the third best after its Prophet, or 'Alee who is the fourth best after its Prophet or that of anyone else. As Allah, the Most High, says:
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<br />"So let those who oppose his (Muhammad's sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) command beware that they will be afflicted with a trial or a painful punishment." (24: 63)
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<br />Imaam Ahmad rahimahullaah said, 'Do you know what the trial mentioned here is? The trial is shirk - perhaps when someone opposes the Prophet's saying, some deviation may affect his heart such that he will be destroyed.' And Ibn Abbaas radiallaahu 'anhu said, 'Stones are about to be sent down from the sky! I say that, 'Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said so and so ...' while you reply with what Aboo Bakr and 'Umar said!'
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<br />Secondly, we know for certain that 'Umar ibn al-Khattab radiallaahu 'anhu was one of the strongest in glorifying the Words of Allaah and His Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam and he was famous for halting short of the limits laid down by Allaah, the Most High. To the extent that he was attributed with being a warden and safe-guard of the Speech of Allaah, the Most High.
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<br />So can this innovation be that which Allaah's Messenger was referring to when he said that "... every innovation leads astray ..."? No. Rather it can be said with certainity that this innovation about which 'Umar said, 'I am pleased with this innovation ...' falls outside what was intended by Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam when he said, "... every bid'ah leads astray." Thus when 'Umar said, 'I am pleased with this innovation ...' he was referring to the effect - that the people had gathered together behind one Imaam while before that, they were (praying) in separate groups. And this praying (behind a single Imaam) during Ramadhan had its origin from the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, as is proven from that which is reported by al-Bukhaaree and Muslim from 'Aa'ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam led the people in prayer for three nights and then hesitated doing so on the fourth night, saying, "Indeed I feared that it would become obligatory upon you, but you would not be able to cope with that." [Reported by Bukhaaree (Eng. trans. vol.1, no.696) and Muslim (Eng. trans. vol.1, no.1666].
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<br />Thus performing the night prayer in Ramadaan as a single Jamaa'ah is from the Sunnah of the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, and 'Umar radiallaahu 'anhu referred to it as a 'bid'ah' considering the fact that after the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam had left leading the prayer, the people became separated such that one person would he praying alone, and elsewhere two would be praying together, and somewhere else three would be praying in Jamaa'ah. So throughout the mosque there were people praying alone and in groups, so 'Umar, the chief of the Believers, had the idea - and this idea was perfectly correct - to gather the people to pray behind a single Imaam. So this action was an innovation in the sense that it was new and different to how the people were before, i.e., praying in separate groups. Hence this bid'ah was relative and subjective - not original and absolute, being set up by Umar radiallaahu 'anhu, as this sunnah was there during the time of the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam So it indeed was a Sunnah (not a bid'ah), which had been abandoned since the time of the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, until Umar radiallaahu 'anhu revived it.
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<br />As a result of all this, it should never be possible for the People of Innovation to use this saying of 'Umar as a way to condone their bid'ah.
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<br />WHAT ABOUT THE SAYING OF THE PROPHET sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam "WHOEVER ENACTS A GOOD SUNNAH ..."?
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<br />What if someone asks: How do you respond to what the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said i.e., "Whoever enacts a good sunnah into Islam, he will get the reward of it and of all those who act upon it up to the Day of Judgement," with the verb Sanna (i.e., 'enact') meaning Shara'a i.e., to introduce or to prescribe?
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<br />The reply to this is: Who is the one who said, "Whoever enacts a good sunnah into Islaam ... ?" He is the same one who also said, "... every bid'ah leads astray." It is not possible for a phrase to eminate from someone who is truthful and proven to be truthful, such that it would deny and negate another phrase of his, and it is absolutely impossible for any speech of Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam to be self-contradictory, nor is it possible to refute any particular meaning by claiming it to be contradictory. Whoever thinks that the words of Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam are self-contradictory, then let him look again, for indeed this kind of thought eminates from a person possessing thoughts that are either deficient or limited. Indeed it is completely impossible that one would find a contradiction in the words of Allaah, the Most High, or that of His Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam.
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<br />If this is so, then it should be clear that the hadith, "... every innovation leads astray ..." does not contradict the hadith "Whoever enacts a good sunnah into Islaam ..." for the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said, "Whoever enacts a good sunnah into Islaam...," while innovations are not from Islaam. And he sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said "... a good sunnah ..." while innovation is not good. So he sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam made a distinction between enacting a Sunnah on the one hand and enacting an innovation on the other.
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<br />In any case, there is a reply that no one should have a problem with - that the meaning of, "Whoever enacts a sunnah ..." is, 'Whoever revives a sunnah that was present and then was lost.' Therefore it means that a matter has been revived, and thus in this way "... enacting a sunnah ..."is relative and secondary just as (in the case of 'Umar, where his use of) the word bid'ah (innovation) was relative and secondary in the sense that it involved the revival of a sunnah that had been abandoned.
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<br />There is even a second reply that can be given: That is the background of the whole hadith, for it is a story concerning the tribe that came to see the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam while being in exceptionally difficult circumstances. So the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam urged that donations be given to them, and hence one man form the Ansaar came forward with a bag of silver in his hand which was almost too heavy for him to carry. He placed it down before the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam This made the face of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam glow with joy and happiness and so he said, "Whoever enacts a good sunnnah into Islaam will have the reward of it and the reward of oil those who act upon it until the Day of Resurrection." So we have here that the meaning of " ... enacting a sunnah ..." means to enact an action in the sense of implementing it and not in the sense of setting up a new thing into the sharee'ah. Hence the meaning of his sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam saying, "Whoever enacts a good sunnah into Islaam ..." turns out to be, 'Whoever acts upon a good sunnah in the sense of implementing it as opposed to introducing a new thing in the sharee'ah,' for that would be prohibited as he sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said, "... every bid'ah leads astray." </blockquote></span></span>
<br />Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-60495447822818612642011-06-08T21:44:00.001-04:002011-06-08T21:45:34.578-04:00Money for Metta<object width="250" height="250"><param name="movie" value="http://widget.chipin.com/widget/id/713f046fc8a693bd"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><param name="event_title" value="Money%20for%20Metta"></param><embed src="http://widget.chipin.com/widget/id/713f046fc8a693bd" flashVars="event_title=Money%20for%20Metta" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowScriptAccess="always" wmode="transparent" width="250" height="250"></embed></object><br /><br />Some of you may know our friend Metta. She is in need of financial help and I'm asking for donations. Please give anything you can. JazakAllah KhairJamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-977832132870085222011-06-02T17:01:00.003-04:002014-02-10T20:36:17.182-05:00Almost 5 years, alhamdulilah!<br />
Its been almost 5 years since I accepted Islam. In late August of 2006 I took my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">shahada</span>. A lot has happened since then. Good and bad, but I trust that Allah has chosen a path for me that will not be more than I can bear.<br />
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When I first accepted Islam, nothing really changed for me. I didn't change the way I dressed at all. Still had the mini skirts and low cut shirts. I had already given up pork and alcohol, so I didn't have to do anything with that, and I knew I was supposed to be praying, but I had no idea what to do. </div>
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As I started to learn more about my new faith, I made changes in the way I lived, dressed and interacted with others. I started to wear long sleeves and long skirts, I was careful about what I said, and I started to TRY to learn to pray. Our first Ramadan we fasted (although I'm sure we did lots of things wrong), and we tried to pray <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">taraweeh</span> on our own. I didn't get to the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">masjid</span> until January of the following year and when I did I was so nervous. </div>
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Once I started going to classes at the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Masjid</span>, things started to change quickly for me. I met other Muslim women who were so nice and helpful. They taught me how to pray, and they taught me the basics of Islam. I started to read more books and ask more questions. With every passing day I felt more comfortable acting, and dressing like a Muslim. I didn't make the changes in my life because someone told me to, but because I understood why I should make them and I wanted to do it. Everything made sense, and it was all clicking. </div>
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Meanwhile, I did make some bad choices about forums and the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Internet</span>. The <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Internet</span> is not the place to learn Islam. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of great resources, but you can get so confused by the information that it can be overwhelming. As for Islamic forums.... I really can't say that they are good for anyone. At first, it is great because you can find others that are asking questions just like you are, and then there are all of the 'great' answers you get. WRONG. Depending on what forum you go on, you will get everything from super mush to super strict, and neither are any help. People will make the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">haram</span> halal and the halal <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">haram</span>. You will find that people will insult each other to make a point, or get angry when the truth is presented. Its an emotional roller coaster that is best avoided. I did meet lots of great people on forums and have kept connections with some of them.... others, were not so great and to this day continue to hold a grudge about things that happened years ago. </div>
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When someone becomes very passionate about something, they can make pretty big mistakes when defending what they believe. I am totally guilty of that. I was not very subtle or gentle on forums. At the time, I could not understand why anyone would think differently than I did about Islam. To me, it was very black and white, and there was no grey. I still don't really see grey, but I do understand how some people can, and I've learned to either be more gentle about it, or just leave it alone. </div>
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I guess the whole point of this post is to say that the best way for ME to learn about Islam is through books, classes and people that I trust. Not the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Internet</span> or forums. That has been made overly clear to me lately and I thought I needed to get it out there. I made mistakes in the past, and I can admit that. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Inshallah</span> others can get over the past and move on as well.</div>
Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-53718860322234764652011-04-17T13:26:00.004-04:002011-04-17T13:47:20.084-04:00Useful ruling on Gelatin<span class="Apple-style-span" >Recently at the school I work at an issue came up where some of the teachers told the parent group that they could not serve certain yogurt because it contained kosher gelatin. They said that even when it says its kosher it might not be and is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">haram</span>. These sisters are from the Sufi <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">masjid</span>, and have caused <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">fitnah</span> like this before. 2 years ago it was that Capri Sun juice boxes were also <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">haram</span> because one of the flavorings had a carrier that is produced using alcohol... no clue what that meant or how they know that, but if it isn't on the ingredients I don't worry about it. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >In any case, I was very bothered by this accusation that we were eating <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">haram</span> yogurt, so I did some research and I found this ruling on gelatin by <span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Sheikh</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Albaani</span>.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; font-size: small; "><blockquote><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Bismillahi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">wa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">salaatu</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">wa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">salaamu</span> '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">alaa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">rasulillah</span>,<br /><br /><i><span new="" roman="">(Taken entirely from a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">dars</span> given by Sh. Muhammad <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15">Bazmool</span>, translated by <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16">Moosa</span> Richardson and a fatwa given by Sh. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17">al</span>-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18">Albaani</span>)</span></i><br /><br /><i><span new="" roman=""><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19">Istihala</span></span></i> is when something becomes pure. It was <i><span new="" roman=""><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20">najis</span></span></i> (impure) but it is now <i><span new="" roman=""><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21">taahir</span></span></i> (pure). A good example would be <i><span new="" roman=""><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22">maitah</span></span></i> (animal carcass): it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23">najis</span>, but should it be burned and become ashes, or decompose and become earth, then it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24">taahir</span>, it is no longer <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25">najis</span>. This can happen with dung or feces or whatever. Whenever something changes from one property to another, then the ruling likewise changes.<br /><br />Example: Let us say that someone uses the fat of a dead animal to make soap. That fat is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26">najis</span>, but the chemical change that it was put through makes it <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27">taahir</span>.<br /><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_28">Ibn</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_29">Hazm</span> put it concisely when he said,<br /><br />"<b>Ruling upon an object is upon what it is named (what it is), if the name (what it is) changes then so does the ruling</b>."<br /><br />He also mentioned in his book of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_30">fiqh</span>, <u><i><span new="" roman="">Al-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_31">Muhalla</span></span></i></u>: "<i><span new="" roman="">If the quality of the substance of naturally impure objects changes the name which was given to it so that it is no more applicable to it and it is given a new name which is given to a pure object, so it is no more an impure thing. It becomes a new object, with a new rule.</span></i>"<br /><br />Meaning that if the natural composition of a substance changes to another substance of a different composition, so much so that you can no longer call the new substance by the name of what it was-- ruling upon that substance changes too.<br /><br /><b>Proof/Example 1</b>:<br /><br />The companions (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_32">radyallahu</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_33">anhum</span>) used to eat a cheese that came from the land of the disbelievers. In that cheese was a part of the calf which was slaughtered by the disbelievers in a way that is not in accordance with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_34">Islaam</span>. The companions knew this, but they also knew that the prohibition was upon the calf, what is directly from the calf, and what could be properly called part of the calf; the ruling is not upon that which you cannot identify as part of the calf nor is it called any longer such-and-such part of the calf. This is called <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_35">istihala</span>.<br /><br /><b>Proof/Example 2</b>:<br /><br />Another proof from the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_36">Sunnah</span>: The Prophet (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_37">sallallahu</span> '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_38">alayhi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_39">wa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_40">sallam</span>) forbade making vinegar out of wine, but he said that if you should come across vinegar that has been made from wine then it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_41">halaal</span>. <br /><br />Why?<br /><br />The ruling is upon what the object is, and not what it was. Wine is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_42">haraam</span>; vinegar is not, and before the wine became an intoxicant, it was <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_43">halaal</span>. Why? Because it was fruit before that.<br /><br /><b>Proof/Example 3</b>:<br /><br />Allah says in the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_44">Qur'an</span>:<br /><br />"<b><i><span new="" roman="">And surely there is a lesson for you in the cattle we give you to drink of what is in their bellies from between the feces and blood, pure milk, wholesome to those who drink it.</span></i></b>" (16:66)<br /><br />Allah is putting forth an example for us of how something pure can come from something impure.<br /><br />And we can also use as proof something that we've already gone over. The Prophet (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_45">sallallahu</span> '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_46">alayhi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_47">wa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_48">sallam</span>) said that when the hide of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_49">maitah</span> (the carrion) is tanned, then it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_50">taahir</span>. He (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_51">sallallahu</span> '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_52">alayhi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_53">wa</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_54">sallam</span>) gave us a method to purify something which was first impure. <br /><br />Let us examine things we are familiar with: mono and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_55">diglycerides</span>, whey, gluten, emulsifiers, <u><b>gelatin</b></u>, and whatever else is on the international <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_56">haraam</span> list. These by-products sometimes come from animals, pigs even, in which case the ruling on the initial substances is that they are <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_57">haraam</span>. But the initial substances (e.g. fat, marrow, cartilage, etc.) are put through chemical change so that you no longer can even call it "pig fat" or "animal bone" or "skin" or "cartilage", etc. because it is no longer that, <b>hence it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_58">taahir</span>, it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_59">halaal</span></b>.<br /><br />What is gelatin? As Oxford dictionary of science defines: "A colorless or pale yellow, water-soluble protein obtained by boiling collagen with water and evaporating the solution. It melts when water is added and dissolves in hot water to form a solution that sets to a gel on cooling." (page 290)<br /><br />Is this a chemical change or is this not a chemical change? Is it protein any longer? No, it is not.<br /><br />You are in disbelief so you ask, "<b>But how can it be <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_60">halaal</span> when it came from something <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_61">haraam</span>?</b>"<br /><br />Because of the proofs mentioned above, <u><b>the ruling is not based upon what it was, the ruling is based upon what it is</b></u>. A <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_62">Hanafi</span> scholar, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_63">Ibn</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_64">Abedin</span> gave the example: "the swine which drowns in a salt lake and decomposes and becomes salt itself, is now <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_65">halaal</span>."<br /><br />And other <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_66">Hanafi</span> scholars go on to say: "salt is different from meat and bones. If they become salt, they are salt."<br /><br />To take the salt example further: salt consists of sodium chloride (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_67">NaCl</span>) when together they are the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_68">halaal</span> food known as salt, when separated they make up two poisonous substances which are then <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_69">haraam</span> for consumption.<br /><br />The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_70">ahnaaf</span> (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_71">Hanafis</span>) also use as an example the human semen, saying that it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_72">najis</span>, then when it inseminates the egg and becomes a blood clot it is still <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_73">najis</span>, but when it becomes flesh it is no longer <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_74">najis</span>. And the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_75">ahnaaf</span> are not the only ones who take this position.<br /><br />The examples are numerous and they extend beyond food: Yesterday a man was <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_76">kaafir</span> and going towards Hell, today he is Muslim, so what is the ruling upon him? It is based upon what he is today.<br /><br />We must be careful when we call things <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_77">haraam</span> because it is a form of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_78">thulm</span> (oppression). Scholars have said that it is worse that you make something <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_79">halaal</span> to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_80">haraam</span> rather than making something <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_81">haraam</span> to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_82">halaal</span>. This <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_83">deen</span> Allah has made <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_84">yusr</span> (easy) let us not make it '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_85">usr</span> (hard). <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_86">Wallahu</span> '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_87">Alim</span>. </blockquote><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px;">For me, this cleared up a lot of things. What are your thoughts on it? </span></span></div>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-38062009261203092912010-12-15T19:45:00.004-05:002010-12-15T20:16:27.057-05:00"The meaning has changed for me""The meaning has changed for me".... have you heard this before? I mostly hear or read this when Muslims are trying to justify celebrating holidays other than the 2 Eids. Aside from the following hadith telling us that we only celebrate Eid... just about every other holiday that is out there has some sort of pagan, religious or evil origin. <div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 153); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span>Anas (ra), a companion of prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) reported that when the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) migrated from Makkah to Madinah, the people of Madinah used to have two festivals. On those two days they had carnivals and festivity. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) asked the Ansaar (the Muslims of Madinah) about it. They replied that before Islam they used to have carnivals on those two joyous days. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) told them: 'Instead of those two days, Allah has appointed two other days which are better, the days of Eid-al-Fitr and Eid-al-Adha.</span>'</span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 153); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >Lets take Thanksgiving for example. From a very young age, Americans are duped into thinking that Thanksgiving was a day that the pilgrims and Native Americans came together for a feast. The real story goes a little something like this:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><b>In 1637 near present day Groton, Connecticut, over 700 men, women and children of the Pequot Tribe had gathered for their annual Green Corn Festival which is our Thanksgiving celebration. In the predawn hours the sleeping Indians were surrounded by English and Dutch mercenaries who ordered them to come outside. Those who came out were shot or clubbed to death while the terrified women and children who huddled inside the longhouse were burned alive. The next day the governor of the Massachusetts Bay Colony declared "A Day Of Thanksgiving" because 700 unarmed men, women and children had been murdered.</b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><b><br /></b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >You can read more here if you like: </span><a href="http://www.manataka.org/page269.html">http://www.manataka.org/page269.html</a></div><div><br /></div><div>So back to my point. Even if you share this information with some, they will tell you that it does not mean that to them and its all about family and food. So lets create an imaginary holiday with a similar history and see how it sounds.</div><div><br /></div><div>Victory Day is celebrated through out La La Land. Long ago, brave fighters from La La Land rode thousands of miles on horseback to a far away land called Splovia. The LaLa soldiers were on a mission and they plundered, killed, raped and burned their way through Splovia. It was said that Splovians were evil and wicked people. The blood ran in the streets of Splovia like rivers. When the battles were over, the King of La La Land declared the mission accomplished and the first Victory day was celebrated by burning a final village of Splovians to the ground and stringing up the bodies for all to see. In modern times, Victory day is celebrated with huge feasts and red and white flags flying. Families travel long distances to see each other and even exchange Victory candles. No one really thinks too much about the murderous past of the day because its 'All about family and food'. </div><div><br /></div><div>How about we replace La La Land with Europe and Splovia with the 'Holy Land'. Now we have the crusades. Should we celebrate that? I mean come on!!??? It isn't about a murderous rampage... its about family and food! right? </div><div><br /></div><div>Perhaps my little scenario is far fetched, but when I do my research on most holidays it amazes me that no one cares what they are really about. I'm not saying that we have to protest non Muslim holidays, we should just avoid them and go about our lives. Why do we need to participate in these things? They either involve shirk, pagan rituals, murder or nationalism. None of which we are supposed to give a second thought. </div><div><br /></div><div> If commercialism wants to take the Christian holidays and make them into a marketing ploy, so be it, but why would we want to support their misguided greed? Santa and the Easter Bunny want one thing from everyone... their money. I don't even understand why Christians celebrate the birth of Jesus on December 25th... he was most likely born in the spring. The only reason the early Church established it in December was to appeal to the pagans of the time and make their transition easier to Christianity. </div><div><br /></div><div>So saying that the meaning has changed for you is sort of like saying that you know better than Allah and his messenger. That you know whats best. May Allah make it easy for us all to follow the straight path. </div>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-59981259920766687112010-10-24T18:29:00.004-04:002010-10-24T19:04:39.162-04:00It has been a whileSo, its been a while since I wrote. I am not sure why, but when ever I thought of something to blog about I didn't really feel like writing. This may turn out to be another hodge podge of thoughts and feelings.<div><br /></div><div>Have you ever gotten into a discussion with another Muslim that insists that they are taking the middle path? Their idea of the middle path can consist of not covering all the way to rejecting hadith.... Lets talk about the middle path. There was a hadith that talked about 3 men. One said I will fast all the time and never break my fast, another said, I will pray all night and not sleep and the 3rd said I will not marry woman. When the Prophet sallalahu Alayhi wa salam learned of this, he went to these men and said, I fast, but I break my fast, I pray but I also rest and I marry women. Who told you to be so extreme?</div><div><br /></div><div>The middle path is not going to extremes that the Prophet told us not to go to. It does not mean just do what ever you want. If you take the extreme the other way you fall into not obeying any of the commands of Allah and the prophet, or just choose the ones that you like. Then we come to those who can't quite justify what they are doing unless they reject hadith for one reason or another. I know that they are fabricated Hadith out there, but the great scholars of Hadith, like Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood etc knew the science of hadith better than anyone. They knew how to classify, research and substantiate what the collected. Who are we to just come along and say...eh...I don't think I'll follow this one. I don't like it. </div><div><br /></div><div>Finally, and I've said this before, you can find a ruling on the internet that makes just about anything permissible... You need to find scholars that are highly qualified that you trust. Mind you, not the ones that come up with rulings that YOU like, but the ones that give the best proof and have the most knowledge. Lets use the example of men and women shaking hands. There is a site that says this is permissible. They actually even quote the hadith that is proof that it is not, but then go onto say that if you don't fear that it will cause fitnah then it is ok. This puts the opportunity in our hands to make a ruling based on what we feel, not on what is right.</div><div><br /></div><div>My next thought comes from revert Muslims identifying themselves as American Muslims. Yes, I am Muslim and I am American. But that does not give me any special licences to ignore the commands of Allah or the Prophet. My 'culture' or lack there of, does not make it so I can do things I should not. In fact it is a part of our test that we live as American Muslims everyday. Not that its so hard to do, but that we are tempted with thoughts that we should still do all the things that all other Americans do. We get sucked into useless holidays and celebrations. We long for what we once had... when in fact we should be happy to leave those things behind, because Allah has guided us to the truth. We have a wonderful, peaceful, happy way of life. Why do we need to try to be like the disbelievers? We all have weaknesses, and it is a struggle everyday to overcome them. Sometimes we fail. But we should make an effort to be happy with what we have and not strive for the dunya. </div><div><br /></div><div>Another thing I hear a lot is 'I'm not Arab so why should I act like one?'. Well You shouldn't. Those things that bother you about Arab CULTURE are very similar to the things that we should avoid about American culture. They are not the same issues but it is the same concept. Unfortunately, this gives people the excuse not to follow things that they deem as Arab, but are actually just a part of Islam. For example, covering properly. People always say that they are not Arab so why dress like one? You don't have to dress like one, but you still need to follow the commands of modesty. It just so happens that an abaya or jilbab covers those requirements pretty well. It should not matter what culture you think they are from. American fashion does not fit the bill. You can take a long dress and put a long shirt under it and pants but you are most likely still showing the shape of your body. Those cute little stretchy dresses cling... helloooo. Not everything in a person's culture is bad, but we need to avoid falling into the trap that we have to stay true to our culture at all costs. </div><div><br /></div><div>Finally, what is the deal with people freaking out about cheese? I mean really. The process used to make cheese can use certain enzymes that might be derived from an animal that was not killed in a halal way, but then we are talking about the unknown. We are not supposed to dig so deep as to try to identify the origins of the enzymes in our cheese. Ibn Taymihah gave a ruling saying that the rennet used to make cheese is permissible because the milk of the animal that had not been slaughtered properly was drunk by the companions after the battle of Iraq. In any case, even if you think you should not eat doritos or what ever else scares you, would you really yell at someone who does? I witnessed a sister get red in the face when she thought another sister was going to have a microwave pasta meal with cheese sauce. These are the same people that say that capri sun juice boxes are haram because of some flavor carrier that may of been extruded using alcohol. Who comes up with this stuff?</div><div><br /></div><div>So, I guess this is it for now. Inshallah I didn't say anything wrong, and if I did, may Allah swt forgive me.</div>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-74255200532524567702010-07-24T16:27:00.006-04:002010-07-24T16:30:33.383-04:00Help a Sister in need<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:arial;font-size:130%;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" >Asalamu</span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:arial;"> </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:arial;font-size:130%;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" >Alaikum</span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:arial;"> All</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">One of my blogging friends has started a 'chip in' campaign to help a sister and her 5 kids. Please follow this link and read the story and give what you can. </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:arial;font-size:130%;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" >Inshallah</span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:arial;"> every little bit counts. Sometimes we just need a little boost to get us through the tough times.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;"><a href="http://solomuslimah.blogspot.com/2010/07/to-help-sister-in-need.html">Help A Sister in Need</a><br /></span></span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-16628685490193798792010-07-21T12:20:00.007-04:002010-07-21T12:49:01.112-04:00Abayas, black henna and what ever else comes to mind<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:100%;">Wow, its been quite some time since I wrote anything here. I've had little <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">tid</span> bits that I wanted to write about, but never got around to it. So I'll mush them all into one post.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:100%;">A few months ago in my Friday class the question came up about the proper clothing for Muslim women. Now don't roll your eyes! It is a constant struggle for some of us, and something that needs to be addressed. The question was "do we have to wear an <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">abaya</span>?". The instructor then quoted the following <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">ayat</span>:</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><br /><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:applybreakingrules/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman";} </style> <![endif]--> <p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal">And as for women past child-bearing who do not expect wed-lock, it is no<span style=""> </span>sin on them if thy discard their outer clothing in such a way as not to show their adornment.<span style=""> </span>But to refrain is better for them. And Allah is the All Hearer, All <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Knower</span>. 24:60</p><p face="arial" class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">She went on to explain that this <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">ayat</span> tells us that when we are out of the house that we have to wear an over garment that can only be cast off when we are past the age of child bearing, but that it is better to keep it on. Now lets ask ourselves a question. if we are not wearing something <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">abaya</span> like, what are we casting off? If we are wearing pants and a long shirt, what is under there when we 'cast them off'? How about <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">salwar</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">kameez</span>? What is under there? Now a lot of sisters will say 'I'm not Arab, why should I wear something Arab??". The truth is... if it fits the requirement of an over garment, who cares what it is called. If you want to wear a giant sheet loosely wrapped around you, go for it. But its got to cover your 'inner clothes' and it can't be tight, transparent or short. So it became clear to me that most western clothes are not appropriate for wearing out in public. I'll start to brace myself for the storm of comments that will be coming my way over this one.<br /></span></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">So moving on... the next thing I wanted to write about is black henna. You may, or may not know that I do henna as a little side business. I recently have been getting inquiries about doing bridal henna. This past weekend I went on a bridal consultation, and the sister asked me for the 'black henna'. For those of you that do not know, there is no such thing as black henna. What people call black henna is really just black hair dye made into a paste and put on the skin. It can cause severe burns, permanent scars and health problems. I absolutely refuse to use this death paste. Usually darker skinned sisters want this done because they say that natural henna won't show up (which it will). I calmly explained that I don't do black henna and why. She said that she had it done before and nothing happened. I calmly told her that it may not burn your skin, but it is getting into your bloodstream and causing problems. She didn't care... it was her 'big day' and she wanted it to show up. She called her sister and she came over to talk to me. She said that natural henna only lasts 3 days. I showed them what I had on my own palm and said that it had been there for 7 days and it was still dark. Her sister said it again. The bride to be said perhaps we can do a test on her before the wedding to see if it shows up. I agree, and we set a date and time to do the test. Her sister keeps going on about it not lasting. At that point I said, do you realize that as a Muslim if you knowingly do something dangerous like black henna that it could be considered a sin? Blank stare. <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Again</span>, she said it was her big day. And for a final time her sister said that natural henna lasted only 3 days. I finally said, perhaps we should not do this at all. You seem to think I'm lying to you about the henna on my own hand. Oh no! they said, apologies galore. We part ways, agreeing on the date of the test. The night before the test I call to confirm and she tells me that she found someone to do black henna. Sigh. After all of the warnings and even bringing up that it could be sinful, she just didn't care. I guess its best that I didn't do it... she never would have been happy. </span></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">So I guess that is it for now, I'm all blogged out. May Allah </span></span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:100%;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" >swt</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> keep us safe and on his straight path.</span></span><br /></span></p>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com28tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-24587323043976933472010-05-24T20:05:00.003-04:002010-05-24T20:27:48.526-04:00Drawing Creatures that do Not Exisit<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" >As most Muslims know, we cannot draw people or animals, unless it is for some educational purpose that we cannot avoid. This ruling is supported by the following hadiths:<br /><br /></span><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" align="left"> <span style="font-size:100%;">While I was with Ibn 'Abbas a man came and said, "O father of 'Abbas! My sustenance is from my manual profession and I make these pictures." Ibn 'Abbas said, "I will tell you only what I heard from Allah's Apostle</span><span style="font-size:100%;">. I heard him saying, '<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Whoever makes a picture will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it.</span>' " Hearing this, that man heaved a sigh and his face turned pale. Ibn 'Abbas said to him, "What a pity! If you insist on making pictures I advise you to make pictures of trees and any other unanimated objects." Bukhari 3:428<br /></span></p><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" align="left"><span style="font-size:100%;">Narrated by Aisha: I stuffed for the Prophet </span><span style="font-size:100%;">a pillow decorated with pictures (of animals) which looked like a Namruqa (i.e. a small cushion). He came and stood among the people with excitement apparent on his face. I said, "O Allah's Apostle! What is wrong?" He said, "<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">What is this pillow?</span>" I said, "I have prepared this pillow for you, so that you may recline on it." He said, "<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Don't you know that angels do not enter a house wherein there are pictures; and whoever makes a picture will be punished on the Day of Resurrection and will be asked to give life to (what he has created)?</span>" Bukhari 4:47</span></p><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" align="left"><span style="font-size:100%;">It appears very clear that we should not draw things that are or were living. But what about things that never really existed? Mythical creatures? Unicorns, dragons, even cartoon characters? I was interested in the answer to this question, so I searched for the answer and found the following:</span></p><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" align="left"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p><div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="ItemContent"> <h5 style="padding-right: 10px;"> <p class="DetailFont"><span style="font-size:100%;">Question<br /></span></p><p class="DetailFont"><span style="font-size:100%;">Assalamoalaikum. i know that drawing or painting human faces or animals is wrong in the eyes of Almighty, and on the day of Judgment we will be asked to blow life into it. however, the thing i would like to ask is it alright to draw or sketch dragons? because they are mythical creatures and never existed, so is it okay if we draw them? please answer in detail. Thank you.</span></p> </h5> </div> <div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="ItemTitle"> <h2><span style="font-size:100%;">Answer</span></h2> </div> <h5 style="padding-right: 10px; font-family: arial; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> <p class="DetailFont"> </p><p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;">All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;">It is not permissible to draw pictures of what is thought to be one of the living creatures even if it never existed in reality, for two reasons: <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; direction: ltr; text-indent: -0.25in; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;">1- This is because it is imitating the creation, and it is only Allaah Who has the ability to create. It is known that the reason of the prohibition of drawing pictures of living creatures is because it is imitating the creation of Allaah, as mentioned in a Qudsi narration: <i>"<span class="DetailFont">And who is more unjust than he who creates like my creation [who tries to imitate my creation].</span>" </i>[Al-Bukhaari]. What would be the case of the one who gives himself the attribute of being able to create what never existed before? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; direction: ltr; text-indent: -0.25in; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;">2- Drawing pictures of living creatures is forbidden in order to prevent any forbidden means which lead to something forbidden. This is indeed a great fundamental rule in religion; when Allaah forbids something in itself, He forbids any means which may lead to it. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;">Allaah Knows best.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" dir="ltr" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; direction: ltr; line-height: 150%; unicode-bidi: embed; text-align: justify;"><span class="DetailFont" style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></p></h5><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial;" align="left"> </p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-31572232496293257802010-03-19T18:02:00.002-04:002010-03-19T18:26:01.138-04:00Ignorance is Dangerous<span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">Over the last few weeks the news has been full of stories of Muslims doing crazy things. I am sure I don't need to mention any of the specifically for you to know what I am talking about. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">Sometimes I wish I could stop the news broadcast and just explain that these people do not represent the true Islam. That they are acting on ignorance and misguidance, and that the majority of Muslims do not hold the same twisted views as these people in the story. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">Ignorance is Dangerous. This statement, while at first may seem to apply to only those who act out violently, can also apply to those ignorant to their religion who are not violent. The same ignorance that can cause someone to think they should kill themselves to destroy and enemy, can also cause someone to deny a part of Islam. So while one is more physically dangerous than the other, they both have the same emotional and mental dangers. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">If you meet a Muslim who does not pray, does not fast, does not follow sunnah, but yet thinks its their place in life to tell others to do the act like they do, you have met someone who is very dangerous. There are always going to be people that struggle with their deen, but know what is right and strive to get there. Then there are those who revel in their defiance and lash out at those who are doing their best to obey their creator. They not only spread the wrong message to other Muslims, but to non Muslims as well. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">What is the solution to this dangerous ignorance? Knowledge. Not the kind of knowledge that we make up ourselves to fit out desires, but the kind that we can learn from the Quran and Sunnah. May Allah guide us all.</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-681893153306455402010-02-28T17:09:00.006-05:002014-02-10T20:36:39.284-05:00Just a Cookie?<br />
<span style="color: #663366; font-family: arial;"><br /></span><span style="color: #663366; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">I recently came across this article written by Bilal Phillips. I know its long, but it is well worth reading. Sometimes things as simple as a fortune cookie can send us astray. May Allah protect us from this. </span><br />
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There are among mankind, people who claim knowledge of the unseen and the future. They are known by various names, among them: fortune-teller, soothsayer, foreseer, augur, magician, prognosticator, oracle, astrologer, palmist, etc. Fortune-tellers use various methods and mediums from which they claim to extract their information, among them: reading tea-leaves, drawing lines, writing numbers, palm-reading, casting horoscopes, crystal ball gazing, rattling bones, throwing sticks, etc.<br />
Practitioners of occult arts, which claim to reveal the unseen and predict the future, can be divided into two main categories:<br />
1. Those who have no real knowledge or secrets but depend on telling their customers about general incidences which happen to most people. They often go through a series of meaningless rituals, then make calculatedly general guesses. Some of their guesses, due to their generality, usually come true. Most people tend to remember the few predictions that come true and quickly forget the many which do not. This tendency is a result of the fact that after some time all the predictions tend to become half-forgotten thoughts in the subconscious until something happens to trigger their recall. For example, it has become a common practice in North America to publish, at the beginning of each year the various predictions of famous fortune-tellers. When a survey was taken of the various predictions for the year 1980, it was found that the most accurate fortune-teller among them was only 24% accurate in her predictions!<br />
2. The second group are those who have made contact with the Jinn. This group is of most importance because it usually involves the grave sin of Shirk, and those involved often tend to be highly accurate in their information and thus present a real Fitnah (temptations) for both Muslims and non-Muslims alike.<br />
World of the Jinn<br />
Some people have attempted to deny the reality of the Jinn about whom the Qur'an has devoted a whole chapter, Soorah al-Jinn (72). By relying on the literal meaning of the word Jinn which comes from the verb Janna, Yajunnu: "to cover, hide or conceal", they claim that the word Jinn really refers to "clever foreigners". Others have even stated that a Jinn is a human who does not have a true mind in his head but he has a fiery nature. But, the reality is that the Jinn represent another creation of Allaah, which co-exists with man on the earth. Allaah created the Jinn before He created mankind, and He also used a different set of elements than those used for man. Allaah said: "Verily we created man from dried clay, from black putrid mud. And we created the Jinn before that from a fiery wind." (Surah al-Hijr 15:26)<br />
They were named Jinn because they are hidden from the eyes of mankind. Iblees (Satan) is from the world of the Jinn, even though he was among the angels when they were commanded by Allaah to prostrate to Adam. When he refused to prostrate and was asked why, Allaah said: "He said, 'I am better than he is. You (Allah) created me from fire and You created him from clay!" (Surah Saad; 38:76)<br />
'Aa'esha reported that the Prophet (pbuh) said, "The angels were created from light and the Jinn from smokeless fire." (Sahih Muslim)<br />
Allaah also said, "And when We told the angels to prostrate to Adam, they all prostrated except Iblees. He was of the Jinn." (Surah al-Kahf, 18:50)<br />
Therefore it is incorrect to consider him a fallen angel or the like.<br />
The Jinn may first be divided into three broad categories in relation to their modes of existence. The Prophet (pbuh) said: "There are three types of Jinn: One type which flies in the air all the time, another type which exists as snakes and dogs, and an earthbound type which resides in one place or wanders about. " (At-Tabaree and al-Haakim)<br />
The Jinn may be further divided into two categories in relationship to their faith: Muslims (believers) and Kaafirs (disbelievers). Allaah refers to the believing Jinn in Soorah al-Jinn as follows: "Say: It has been revealed to me that a group of Jinn listened and said, 'Verily we have heard a marvellous Qur'an. It guides unto righteousness so we have believed in it. And, we will never make partners with our Lord. He, may our Lord's glory be exalted, has not taken a wife nor a son. What the foolish ones among us used to say about Allaah is a horrible lie."(Surah al-Jinn 72:1-4)<br />
"And there are among us Muslims and others who are unjust. Whoever accepts Islam has sought out the right path. As for those who are unjust, they will be fuel for the Hell fire." (Surah Jinn 72:14)<br />
The disbelievers among the Jinn are referred to by various names in both Arabic and English: 'Ifreet, Shaytaan, Qareen, demons, devils, spirits, ghosts, etc. They try to misguide man in various ways. Whoever listens to them and becomes a worker for them is referred to as human Shaytaan (devil).<br />
Allaah said: "Likewise, we have made for every Prophet an enemy, Shaytaans from among mankind and the Jinn. (Surah al-An'aam 6:112)<br />
Every human has an individual Jinn accompanying him referred to as a Qareen (i.e. companion). This is a part of man's test in this life. The Jinn encourage his lower desires and constantly try to divert him from righteousness. The Prophet (pbuh) referred to this relationship as follows, "Everyone of you has been assigned a companion from the Jinn. " The Sahaabah asked, "Even you, O Messenger of Allaah?" And the Prophet replied, "Even me, except that Allaah has helped me against him and he has submitted. Now he only tells me to do good."(Muslim)<br />
Prophet Sulaymaan (Solomon) was given miraculous control over the Jinn, as a sign of his prophethood. Allaah said: "And, we gathered for Sulaymaan his army from the Jinn, mankind and the birds." (Surah an-Naml 27:17) and they were all kept in order and ranks.<br />
But this power was not given to anyone else. No one else is allowed to control the Jinn and no one can. The Prophet said, "Verily an 'Ifr-eeit from among the Jinn spat on me last night trying to break my Salaah. However Allaah let me overpower him and I wanted to tie him to one of the columns in the masjid so that you all could see him in the morning. Then, I remembered my brother Sulaymaan's prayer: 'Oh my Lord, forgive me and bestow on me a kingdom not allowed to anyone after me.' (Surah Saad 38:35) (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)<br />
Man cannot gain control over the Jinn as this was a special miracle given only to Prophet Sulaymaan. In fact, contact with the Jinn in circumstances other than possession, or accident is most often made by the performance of sacrilegious acts despised and forbidden in the religion. The evil Jinn summoned in this fashion may aid their partners in sin and disbelief in God. Their goal is to draw as many others as they can into the gravest of sins, the worship of others besides or along with God.<br />
Once contact and contract with the Jinn are made by fortune-tellers, the Jinn may inform them of certain events in the future. The Prophet (pbuh) described how the Jinn gather information about the future. He related that the Jinn were able to travel to the lower reaches of the heavens and listen in on some of the information about the future, which the angels pass among themselves. They would then return to the earth and feed the information to their human contacts.(Bukhari and Muslim) This used to happen a lot prior to the prophethood of Muhammad (pbuh) and fortune-tellers were very accurate in their information. They were able to gain positions in the royal courts and enjoyed much popularity and were even worshipped in some regions of the world.<br />
After the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) began his mission the situation changed. Allaah had the angels guard the lower reaches of the heavens carefully, and most of the Jinn were chased away with meteors and shooting stars. Allaah described this phenomena in the following Qur'anic statement made by one of the Jinn, "We (the Jinn) had sought out the heavens but found it filled with strong guardians and meteors. We used to sit on high places in order to listen, but whoever listens now finds a flame waiting for him.."'<br />
Allaah also said, "And We have guarded it (the heavens) from every cursed devil, except the one who is able to snatch a hearing and, he is pursued by a brightly burning flame."(Surah al-Hijr 15:17)<br />
Ibn 'Abbaas said, "When the Prophet and a group of his companions set out for the Ukaadh market, the devils were blocked from hearing information in the heavens. Meteors were let loose on them, so they returned to their people. When their people asked what happened, they told them. Some suggested that something must have happened, so they spread out over the earth seeking the cause. Some of them came across the Prophet and his companions while they were in Salaah and they heard the Qur'an. They said to themselves that this must have been what blocked them from listening. When they returned to their people they told them, 'Verily we have heard a marvellous Qur'an. It guides unto righteousness so we believed in it. And we will never make partners with our Lord.' (Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi and Ahmad)<br />
Thus, the Jinn could no longer gather information about the future as easily as they could before the Prophet's (pbuh) mission. Because of that, they now mix their information with many lies. The Prophet said: "They (the Jinn) would pass the information back down until it reaches the lips of a magician fortune-teller. Sometimes a meteor would overtake them before they could pass it on. If they passed it on before being struck, they would add to it a hundred lies." (Al-Bukhari and Tirmidhi)<br />
'Aa'eshah reported that when she asked Allaah's messenger (pbuh) about fortune-tellers, he replied that they were nothing. She then mentioned that the fortune-tellers sometimes told them things, which were true. The Prophet (pbuh) said: "That is a bit of truth which the Jinn steals and cackles in the ear of his friend; but he mixes along with it a hundred lies." (al-Bukhari, Muslim)<br />
Once while 'Umar ibn al-Khattaab was sitting, a handsome man, Sawaad Ibn Qaarib passed by him. 'Umar said: "If I'm not wrong, this person is still following his religion of pre-Islamic times or perhaps he was one of their fortune-tellers." He ordered that the man be brought to him and asked him about, what he suspected. The man replied, "I have never seen a day like this where a Muslim is faced with such accusations." 'Umar said, "Verily I am determined that you should inform me." The man then said, "I was their fortune-teller in the time of ignorance." On hearing that 'Umar asked, "Tell me about the strangest thing which your female Jinn told you." The man then said, "One day, while I was in the market, she came to me all worried and said, 'Have you not seen the Jinns in their despair after their disgrace? And their following of she-camels and their riders." 'Umar interjected, "It is true." (Al-Bukhari)<br />
The Jinns are also able to inform their human contact of the relative future. For example, when someone comes to a fortune-teller, the fortune-teller's Jinn gets information from the man's Qareen (the jinn assigned to every human being) of what plans he had made prior to his coming. So the fortune-teller is able to tell him that he will do this or that, or go here or there. By this method, the real fortune-teller is also able to learn about a stranger's past in vivid detail. He is able to tell a total stranger of his parents' names, where he was born, the acts of his childhood, etc. The ability to vividly describe the past is one of the marks of a true fortune-teller who has made contact with the Jinn. Because the Jinn are able to traverse huge distances instantaneously, they are also able to gather huge stores of information about hidden things, lost articles and unobserved events. Proof of this ability can be found in the Qur'an, in the story about Prophet Sulaymaan and Bilqees, the Queen of Sheba. When Queen Bilqees came to see him, he asked the Jinn to bring her throne from her land. "An Ilfreet from among the Jinns said, I will bring it for you before you can get up from your place. Verily, I am strong and trustworthy for the assignment.(Surah an-Naml)<br />
The Islamic Ruling on Fortune-telling<br />
Because of the sacrilege and heresy involved in fortune telling, Islam has taken a very strong stance towards it. Islam opposes any form of association with those who practice fortune-telling, except to advise them to give up their forbidden practices.<br />
Visitation of Fortune-tellers<br />
The Prophet (pbuh) laid down principles, which clearly forbade any form of visitation of fortune-tellers. Safiyyah reported from Hafsah (wife of the Prophet) that the Prophet (pbuh) said, "The Salaah of whoever approaches a fortune-teller and asks him about anything will not be accepted for 40 days and nights."(Muslim) The punishment in this Hadeeth is for simply approaching a fortune-teller and asking him questions out of curiosity. This prohibition is further supported by Mu'aawiyah Ibn al-Hakam asSalamee's Hadeeth in which he said, "O Messenger of Allaah, verily there are some people among us who visit oracles. " The Prophet (pbuh) replied, "Do not go to them". Such a severe punishment has been assigned for only visitation because it is the first step to belief in fortune-telling. If one went there doubtful about its reality, and some of the fortune-teller's predictions come true, one will surely become a true devotee of the fortune-teller and an ardent believer in fortune-telling. The individual who approaches a fortune-teller is still obliged to make his compulsory Salaah throughout the 40 day period, even though he gets no reward from his prayers. If he abandons the Salaah all together, he has committed another major sin. This is similar to the Islamic ruling in the case of Salaah on or in stolen property, according to the majority of Jurists. They hold that whenever obligatory Salaah is performed, it produces two results under normal circumstances:<br />
1. It removes the obligation of that prayer from the individual. 2. It earns him a reward.<br />
If Salaah is performed on or in stolen property it removes the obligation of Salaah, but it is devoid of reward. Consequently, the Prophet forbade praying the same obligatory prayers twice.<br />
Belief in Fortune-tellers<br />
The Islamic ruling with regard to anyone who visits a fortune-teller believing that he knows the unseen and the future is that of Kufr (disbelief). Abu Hurayrah and al-Hasan both reported from the Prophet (pbuh) that he said, "Whosoever approaches a fortune-teller and believes what he says, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad. Such a belief assigns to creation some of Allaah's attributes with regard to the knowledge of the unseen and the future. Consequently, it destroys Tawheed alAsmaa was-Sifaat, and represents a form of Shirk in this aspect of Tawheed.<br />
The ruling of Kufr includes, by analogy (Qiyaas), those who read the books and writings of fortune-tellers, listen to them on the radio or watch them on the T. V., as, these are the most common means used by 20th century fortune-tellers to spread their predictions.<br />
Allaah clearly states in al-Qur'an that no one knows the unseen besides Him. Not even the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Allaah said: With Him are the keys to the unseen and none knows it except Him alone."<br />
Then he told the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), "Say! I have no power to bring good to myself nor avert harm but it is only as Allah wills. If it were that I knew the unseen, I would have multiplied the good and no evil would have touched me."<br />
And he also said: "Say! None in the heavens nor the earth knows the 'unseen except Allah'."<br />
Therefore, all the various methods used around the world by oracles, fortune-tellers, and the likes, are forbidden to Muslims.<br />
Palm-reading, I-Ching, fortune cookies, tea leaves as well as Zodiacal signs and Bio-rhythm computer programs, all claim to inform those who believe in them about their future. However, Allaah has stated in no uncertain terms that He alone knows the future: ''Verily the knowledge of the Hour is with Allaah alone. It is He who sends down the rain and knows the contents of the wombs. No one knows what he will earn tomorrow nor in which land he will die, but Allaah is all-knowing and aware."(Surah Luqmaan 31:34)<br />
Therefore, Muslims must take utmost care in dealing with books, magazines, newspapers as well as individuals who, in one way or another, claim knowledge of the future or the unseen. For example, when a Muslim weather-man predicts rain, snow, or other climatic conditions for tomorrow he should add the phrase, "In ShaaAllaah (If Allaah so wishes)". Likewise, when the Muslim doctor informs her patient that she will deliver a child in 9 months or on such and such a day, she should take care to add the phrase "In ShaaAllaah", as such statements are only estimations based on statistical information.<br />
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<span class="qurandata">Over the past few years that I have been Muslim (alhamdulilah), I have read numerous blogs and posted on quite a few forums. In the beginning, when I was still learning, I was a bit too harsh sometimes with the things that I said. Not that they weren't true, but the approach could have been better. After a while I learned that it was best to stay away from things that cause fitnah. I stopped reading blogs that drove me crazy, and I stopped posting on forums for the same reasons. I still enjoy reading blogs, but I have to keep away from the ones that frustrate me. I also still like reading forums, but I don't post or comment much... it just doesn't seem to make any difference or do any good. This brings me to the first part of the hadith I posted above. <span style="font-style: italic;">'</span></span><span style="font-style: italic;">The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids quarreling even if he were in the right'</span>. I've had to implement this recently. I slipped back into some of the old bad habits of reading blogs that make me crazy and I've had to step back and let it go. Nothing I can so or do will change the problem, so I leave it. For the sake of Allah swt, I leave it and walk away.</div>
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<span style="font-family: arial; font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><br />You are in a cage that you have trapped yourself in. You rattle the bars violently, screaming at your captors that you have created in your mind. As your anger grows, you begin hurling yourself against the walls of the cage... over and over again... you fall to the floor from exhaustion, drawing ragged breaths while the sweat drips from your forehead to splash on the concrete below. Moments later you are back up, and slamming against the bars once more. People on the outside of your self imposed cage watch you with concern, wincing each time you slam into the bars. Someone comes to comfort you and offer you a cool drink of water, but you slap it out of their hand and snarl like a wounded animal. <br /></span><span style="font-family: arial; font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">The cage.....its in your head. Your violent reactions are self imposed. Its all because you refuse to submit the religion you claim to follow. </span> </blockquote>
<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">The scenario above happens more and more. People accept Islam, but fight so hard not to follow it. They lash out at anyone who tries to help them, all the while spewing venom and hatred towards those who do submit. They would rather make up their own rules that fit their desires than follow the pure guidance of Allah and his Messenger.<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">When Allah perfected this deen, he didn't put loop holes, footnotes or clauses at the end.... he made it perfect for then, for now, for all time. Can anyone dare to say that Allah didn't know how the world would change when he gave us his guidance to follow? Who are we to decide to change that guidance? And worse yet, to tell others to change it too?<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">Islam means submission. And if you truly submit, the cage will disappear. The hatred and rage in your heart will dissolve and you will be at peace with yourself and others. Ask Allah to give you this peace. Ask him to show you the path, and if you are sincere, he will give it to you.</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-1344728383624816282010-01-19T16:30:00.004-05:002014-02-10T20:38:04.903-05:00May Allah Protect us....<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">Recently a Muslim told my husband in a blog comment response that by wearing the niqab, I, and other women, are making the statement that we support the ideology that the Taliban and Osama Bin Laden stand for. This Muslim also said that the context of the niqab had changed and it stood for a backwards, extremist ideology and should not be worn by anyone who thing terrorism is wrong. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">I ask Allah to protect us from such things.</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com27tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-33079145354892844242010-01-16T18:24:00.004-05:002010-01-16T19:00:44.729-05:00Magic in Islam<span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">I recently heard a lecture that talked about magic in Islam. Magic is real. It is something that we have to believe is real, but we can't participate in it or be pleased with it.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">Allah Subhanna Wa T'ala sent two angels as a trial. They told people that they could learn magic but that it was a trial for them and not do it. In the Quran it says:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">And they followed [instead] what the devils had recited during the reign of Solomon. It was not Solomon who disbelieved, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people magic and that which was revealed to the two angels at Babylon, Hārūt and Mārūt. But the two angels do not teach anyone unless they say, "We are a trial, so do not disbelieve [by practicing magic]." And [yet] they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allāh. And the people learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But the Children of Israel certainly knew that whoever purchased the magic would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves, if they only knew. 2:102</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">The whole point of the lecture that I was listening to was to warn Muslims of falling into disbelief by learning about magic or being pleased with it. One of the examples that he used was the series of books about Harry Potter. Now I know that a lot of people would say that its not real (the story line) and we know it, its just for fun, but if you think about it when you read books like that you are actually pleased with magic and its effects. If you think back to each book release, hordes of children and adults alike lined up to get their copy. They would read it with a passion and be so excited to hear the next step of the young wizard. They actually root for him as the 'hero' of the series. In this way, we are becoming pleased with magic. I think the same thing applies for books like Twilight. I've never read them but from what I've heard there is a lot of magical things going on. The lecturer went on to say that watching movies with magic and playing video games with magic was just as bad. Unknowingly we are sucking ourselves in to thinking its cool.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">In the end, the lecturer said that if we practice magic or are pleased with it in any way that it is pure disbelief, that it is a form of shirk. We are giving power to others that Allah. Let us all protect ourselves from this by reciting the last three surahs of the Quran:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Al Ikhlas</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Say, He is Allah, who is one</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Allah the eternal refuge</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">He neither begets or is born</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Nor is there to Him any equivalent</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Al Falaq</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Say, I seek refuge in the Lord of daybreak</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">From the evil of that which He created</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">And from the evil of the darkness when it settles</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">And the evils of the blowers in knots</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">And from the evil of an envier when he envies </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Al Naas</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Say, I seek refuge in the Lord of mankind</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">The sovereign of mankind</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">The God of mankind</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">From the evil of the retreating whisper</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">Who whispers evil into the breasts of mankind</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">From among the Jinn and mankind</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-62513097960664528472009-12-26T23:48:00.004-05:002009-12-27T00:23:23.689-05:00Innovation FYI<span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" >Have you ever tried to warn someone of an innovation only to have them come back and say that driving a car, using a computer and talking on the phone is an innovation too, so what you are calling an innovation cannot possibly be valid? Well if you have, I'm sure you have to stop yourself from rolling your eyes in frustrated disgust. </span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" >If we look at the hadith that best covers this issue we can clearly see that the innovation we are talking about has to do with innovations to the RELIGION, not everyday technological advances.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-style: italic;">"Indeed, the most evil of matters in the religion are the newly invented ones, and every innovation in the religion is bid`ah, andevery bid`ah is misguidance, and every misguidance is in the Hellfire."</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" >I feel true embarrassment for those who use the 'well you drive a car' argument to defend some innovation that they are attached to. May Allah swt guide them and protect them. </span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-81751191552997199862009-12-18T21:21:00.004-05:002014-02-10T20:39:10.137-05:00Revert Story<br />
<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">One of the reversion stories that I have always loved is that of Yusuf Estes. You can watch it </span><a href="http://www.watchislam.com/videos/video.php?vid=3" style="color: #3366ff; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">here</a><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;"> if you have not seen it. Br Yusuf is a very charismatic man. He is at ease in front of a crowd, and has a sense of humor that puts others at ease as well. Each time I listen to him tell his story, I find something new that I had not heard before.<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">While listening to his story this time I was particularly taken by the part that has to do with his wife wanting to accept Islam. Br Yusuf had just found out that a Catholic Priest he knew had become Muslim. While telling his wife of the Priests reversion she told him she wanted a divorce. At first Br Yusuf thought that she wanted a divorce because she thought he was interested in accepting Islam, but in fact it was her that wanted to become a Muslim. She wanted a divorce because she knew that a Muslim woman could not be married to a Christian man.<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">What really struck me was this woman's deep conviction for her new faith. She was willing to give up her husband to do what was right. Subhanallah... most of us take months to get used to things... we don't cover, we don't pray, we certainly don't leave our husbands, but she was ready to jump right in. For sisters, all of the new responsibilities of being Muslim can be overwhelming, but for her it was not a problem. May Allah swt make it so easy for us all.<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">Inshallah this serves as a reminder to us all that as long as we trust in Allah that we can do anything he commands. As long as we ask him for help and guidance, we will always have the strength to do what is right, and what pleases him.<br /></span><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">Alhamdulilah.</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-82816874356372186562009-12-09T21:49:00.003-05:002014-02-10T20:39:46.610-05:00Serenity Comes from The Quran<br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">These words are perfect. They give me serenity in times of turmoil, and they show me that to Allah swt, we will return. We all strive to follow the right guidance. Some have different ideas of what that is than others, but if you follow Quran and Sunnah, and enjoin good and forbid evil this ayat tells us that no harm can come to us. </span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-60543469759671034852009-12-07T17:44:00.004-05:002009-12-07T18:08:08.689-05:00Authentic Statements - Christmas: A Birthday Celebration<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;">Asalamu Alaikum</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;">AuthenticStatements.com is an excellent resource for Islamic knowledge. According to their 'about us' page, </span><blockquote style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;">Authentic Statements was primarily established to introduce the Muslims to the scholars of Ahlus-Sunnah and the popular speakers who follow them in knowledge by way of both audio and visual materials.With the Muslims in the west in mind, it is our intention to bridge the gap, which more often than not is no more than a language barrier, with those who invite to Allâh with wisdom and insightful preaching.</blockquote><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;">I regularly get email updates from the site, and today I received an email with a link to the first of their new monthly newsletter. The topic of the newsletter is very fitting for this time of year and I wanted to share it with my brothers and sisters in hopes that you can benefit from it as well. I'll copy a small excerpt from it to get your started, and please click </span><a style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;" href="http://www.authenticstatements.com/store/files/docs/asmp/publication.pdf">here</a><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;"> for the full PDF</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;"> newsletter.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;"></span><blockquote style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: arial;"><span style="font-style: italic;">There is no doubt that Allah the Glorified and Most High legislated two holidays for the Muslims in which they gather together for remembrance of Allah and prayer, which are Eidul-Fitr and Adha, (given as) a replacement for the pre-Islamic celebrations. He also legislated(other) holidays which include types of remembrance and worship such as Friday, the day of Arafah, and the days of Tashreeq (11th, 12th, and 13th of Thul-Hijjah) and did not legislate Christmas, (a birthday celebration) neither for the prophet (salla Allahualaihi wa sallam) or anyone else and the textual evidence from both the Book and prophetic Traditions demonstrate that these birthday celebrations are innovations in the religion and a form of imitating those that oppose Allah</span></blockquote>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-12186258339772579722009-12-01T21:25:00.004-05:002009-12-01T21:34:54.473-05:00Revealing Your Sins<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-family:arial;" >I recently read a blog that openly revealed the persons sins. It was almost as if they were proud of the disobedience that they spoke of. I seem to notice this a lot lately and wonder if they are aware of the following hadith</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-family:arial;" >Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: “The Messenger of Allaah (sallallahu `alayhi wa salam) said: <span navy="" style="font-size:85%;color:#000080;"> “Every member of my nation will be forgiven, except those who expose their wrongdoings. An example of this is that of a man who commits a sin at night which Allaah then conceals, but, the next morning, he goes and says (to people): ‘I committed such and such a sin last night’ - while Allaah had kept it secret. During the night Allaah had concealed it, but in the morning he tore up the cover provided by Allaah Himself.”</span> [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]<br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-family:arial;" >If you want to ignore the commands of our religion, then fine, but don't be so proud of it. Don't write it in your blog like you have no fear, so that everyone can cringe at your ignorance. </span></span><br /></span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-14169434872579316742009-11-27T22:14:00.004-05:002009-11-27T22:29:09.835-05:00Allah Knows What is in My Heart<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_TLwdPcmO5H8/SxCYhX31JNI/AAAAAAAAAmM/YJYaAikruiA/s1600/ASR.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 98px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_TLwdPcmO5H8/SxCYhX31JNI/AAAAAAAAAmM/YJYaAikruiA/s320/ASR.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5408990851583255762" border="0" /></a><br /><p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal">"Allah knows what is in my heart".... how many times have you heard this from someone who is trying to make excuses for why they don't follow a part of Islam? In one of my classes our teacher brought this up and then reminded us of Surah Al Asr</p> <p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 35.1pt 0.0001pt 27pt; text-indent: -27pt; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-family: times new roman; font-style: italic;">By time,<o:p></o:p></p> <u1:p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-family: times new roman; font-style: italic;"></u1:p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 35.1pt 0.0001pt 27pt; text-indent: -27pt; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-family: times new roman; font-style: italic;"><u1:p></u1:p>Indeed, mankind is in loss,<o:p></o:p></p> <u1:p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-family: times new roman; font-style: italic;"></u1:p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: 35.1pt; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-family: times new roman; font-style: italic;"><u1:p></u1:p>Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: 35.1pt; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 102, 204); font-family: arial;"><br /></p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 102, 204);font-family:arial;" >So you see, the Quran is telling us that we must do righteous deeds, and advise each other to the truth. Islam is a religion of inner and outer faith. We must believe it in our heart and show it with our actions. </span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-91903558640704227522009-10-12T15:20:00.004-04:002014-02-10T20:42:39.532-05:00What IS Important?<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">I'm not sure how to start this post. There are a lot of things running around in my head. I guess this all started a few days ago when someone told me about the head of Al Azhar humiliating a young woman into taking off her niqab and then basically called her ugly. Then a few days later, al Azhar made the move of banning niqab in the classroom. Read more about it </span><a href="http://english.aljazeera.net/news/middleeast/2009/10/200910771027899622.html" style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">here</a><span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">As a niqabbi I find this all really disturbing. I find it even more disturbing when I try to talk to other Muslims about it and they tell me I have to respect this man that called for the ban. Why should I? He obviously does not deserve my respect. He went as far as to say that niqab has no place in Islam? Really? So the mothers of the believers were wrong in wearing it? So the top scholars (Bin Bazz, Uthameen, Fawzaan) are wrong when they say its an obligation? I also get the same old lines from people when I discuss niqab. They always bring up that they know a niqabbi who does bad things AND that sometimes men disguise themselves in niqab to gain access to places they should not have access too. What do I say to that? So what! Just because some people do wrong things does that negate the right things? No, it doesn't. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">One other response I get is that clothing does not make a Muslim. Yes, that is true, but following the commandments of Allah does. It is one of the same old arguments I get. When it gets down to it... people want to make excuses and throw up barriers. They want to tell me that dressing like an Arab is not required. I don't think I dress like an Arab, I dress like a Muslim, like I was commanded to dress. Just because abaya and niqab happen to fufill these requirements best does not mean it has anything to do with being arab. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">Perhaps I'm delving in too deep here, but the resistance that is found at the level of clothing leads to much bigger issues. If you can't give up the fashion of this world for the sake of Allah you are pretty stuck aren't you? As an Ummah we spend so much time trying to redefine boundaries of Islam that we lose sight of what we should be doing. Worshipping Allah subhanna wa ta'alah. There is this wonderful guide book, its called the Quran.... it had everything we need to know. It also instructs us to listen to our Prophet, and we do that by following the hadiths... so whats the big problem here? </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc33cc; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;">While there are other issues to be discussed in Islam, I find that if we can't get past the speed bump of covering properly that we are lost at the starting gate. </span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-322277589828529056.post-87187634483518431542009-09-21T23:42:00.003-04:002009-09-21T23:57:10.279-04:00Update on lots of things<span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">During Ramadan I wanted to write but never found the time, so here is a little update of what has been going on with me.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">I started back to school teaching. It was right at the start of Ramadan so for the first few weeks of school I was tired and so were the kids. I am finally on Eid break and enjoying the quiet. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">My henna business has been going slow but good. I had a chance to do a woman's event with another henna artist and it was great to meet her. The only drawback was that it was totally non Muslim. When I arrived, I checked in with the front desk to find out where I should go. Once I found my friend I excused myself to go pray and break fast. When I came back she told me that the event organizers had come over and asked her if I was going to wear 'that' the entire time, meaning my veil. My friend told me when I got back what was said. At the time I laughed it off, but the more I thought about it the more it made me angry. There were women there with various body parts hanging out for all to see, but because I was covered I was a problem? Other than that little issue things went fine and I had some great conversations with the ladies that I did do henna for. They all had questions about Islam and it was nice to share my art and give dawah at the same time.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">On Eid day, we went to the early salat at the masjid. It was totally packed, I could not even get in and prayed in the hallway. Towards the end a few sisters came out early. One was wearing a sari with her somach showing... I just about died, but didn't say anything.... I was too shocked to even get a word out. After that a bunch of us went to IHOP for breakfast. The girls were at one table and the boys at another. It was so nice and peaceful to just be with all of these muslims talking about our Ramadan experiences and having yummy food! After that my husband and I went to the Eid carnival to set up to vend. He was selling books for hudastore.com and of course I was doing henna. We did well and were busy the whole time. I was sad to see so many sisters not covered but what can I do. I had one young lady come to me for henna and she was not covered at all, and wearing tight revealing clothing. As she was getting henna some of her other girl friends and some young men were making so much noise in the tent next to us. Then some of the boys came over to see what she was doing. I told them (nicely) that as young muslim men they needed to back about 10 feet off of this beautiful young girl and lower their gaze. They all laughed and talked about being told off by the niqabi! I then asked the young lady when she was going to cover, and she said soon inshallah. Now all of this was done in fun with them, nothing accusatory or rude, so it was a nice chance to give dawah to some young brothers and sister that obviously needed it. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">So now I have a week off and so does my husband. We are going to take our son to the zoo tomorrow inshallah... If I have any fun stories from that i'll let you know. :)</span>Jamilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.com4